Monday, October 29, 2007

Oceanic khanas

Out of grief over Miki's loss, Ate Rosie and Kuya Jack decided not to spend the rest of the day in their home last Friday. After hours of trying to calm themselves, Ate invited me and Jade to go with them to the seashore somewhere in Taoyuan. They prefer to keep themselves busy to help them somehow forgot what just happened earlier. Taking this opportunity to see the place, I said yes right away.


On their last visit to the place, Ate gave me a share of the squid she bought from the wet market in Taoyuan. She boasted about the handful yet cheap seafood varieties they saw in the place and her thought of buying one basin full of different fishes. Asked by her husband how she'll consume them all gave her second thoughts though so she shrugged off the idea from her mind. When she told me about it, I told her she should have just bought them all and we could share among our other friends and pay her back. Knowing that we were interested, she planned bringing us to the place two weeks from now to match her hubby's day-off from work. Somehow, the waiting time was shortened.


Taoyuan is a county located in the northwestern part of Taiwan, next to Taipei County. In Chinese, "Taoyuan" means "peach garden," since the area used to have many peach blossoms. One of the main reasons this county is popular is because the Taoyuan City is home to the then called Chiang-Kai-Shek International Airport, the gateway to Taiwan. The airport's name has eventually been changed to Taoyuan International Airport. So it's not really our first time to set foot on the place because we have been in and out of the airport several times already. That also prompted me to tell them to drive us straight to the airport instead of tagging us home back to Taipei after visiting the wet market.


Anyway, on our way, we saw the usual huge waves by the sea - the highway was beside the Taiwan Strait. I only knew now that the body of water is called Taiwan Strait - earlier during our trip, I asked Kuya if it was part of the China Sea - being sensitive to China-Taiwan things - he looked at me and uttered seriously "this is no China - this is Taiwan!" I should be very careful next time. Locals here are sensitive about this issue nowadays.


The drive to the place was around one hour - I guess it was less than an hour. We headed to the port right away and from today's research, I found out that the place we went to is just one of the ports in Taoyuan and it is called Jhuwei Fishing Port. At the back of my mind, I remember seeing a sign "Taipei port". I captured some excerpt from Taiwan's Council of Agriculture website to tell a little more about the place.


Jhuwei is located in the Dayuan Township near Bali Township in Taipei County. Because of its beauty, it has become one of the top recreational areas for Taipei residents. Tourists go there for the glorious sunset and the grand splashing of the waves against the northern bank. The Jhuwei Tourism Fish Market, the most famous and the biggest fish market in northern Taoyuan, opens all-year round. It has an area of more than 25,000 sq feet (700 ping) and packs 77 stalls. Tourists can buy fresh seafood on the first floor or eat seafood on the second floor. The chefs on the second floor are more than happy to cook the seafood bought on the first floor. (BTW, ping is the unit of measurement they use for floor areas. One ping is equivalent to around 36 sq. feet or 3.5 square meters.)


One of the significant things I noticed as we entered the market place is the absence of foul odors or in other words, fishy smell. The other thing is that I expected the floor to be wet because I am used to going to the fish market that is literally wet, but no, the floor is dry. The first stall that we saw was selling huge fish varieties. All I uttered is "wow" and of course, click click click went my small camera.








We went from one stall to the other looking for the items listed in our minds - salmon, shrimps, squid and anything else (that could be a lot huh!). We surveyed the place first before buying.



Ate and Kuya kept talking to me as I also kept asking them what kind of fish is this or that or what part of a fish is that, is that really part of the fish, etc. etc. Of course, Jade also looked around with curiousity and followed me saying "wow". In one stalls, the owner was talking in a loud voice, I thought he was fighting with the customer but noting that there was no air of fight, I asked Ate why his voice is that loud. I figured out he was just reacting that way because nobody wanted to buy the fishes in his stall. You know why? It's because they're so huge and bunched up in a basin where one contained around three pieces of huge fishes and they are sold not by piece but by bunch. My, I wouldn't by one myself. We can't consume them all. We passed through stalls that sell any of the these - fishes alone, fish varieties, shrimp varieties, squids, crabs, seashells, seaweeds, lobsters, clams, combination of them all, sashimi, octopus tentacles, fish egg, etc. There's this fish meat that looked like a jelly - silky and very white - I was told, it's a part of a fish stomach wall - could be of a shark's. I also saw a quite ugly fish and Kuya told me it's from deep water - the uglier the fish is, the deeper it came from. It reminded me of one show I saw on TV about the discovery of grotesque fishes on one part of the ocean somewhere around the world.









Anyhow, the sea wonder that amazed me most was the humongous crabs that were even bigger than my face. Ate and Kuya kept telling me about it on our way to the stall. At first, I couldn't believe when they told me about its size, and especially its cost - 3000NTD per piece - that's around 4000PHP based on the current forex rate. My, who buy that? I already saw the biggest lobster around the market but was yet to see the largest crab in my entire life. When we reached the stall, I was finally convinced about its size because I saw it myself. They had something like thorns on their shells. I unit thought the length of the legs I saw was just it only to be told they're folded so when I looked closer, I realized how huge they really are. In Taiwan, the common unit of measurement is by 600grams or jin as it is locally termed. Thus 600 grams would be i-jin while 1200grams would be er-jin. "I" (pronounced as "ee") and "er" mean one and two respectively. The stall owner informed us that i-jin of the crab costs 680NTD, Ate and Kuya said it's cheaper this time of the year compared to its price during the Chinese New Year where i-jin would cost more than 800NTD. The couple had already tried this kind of crab and they described it to be very very delicious - I am convinced merely by their facial and verbal expressions. I could put exclamation point at the end of their statements. They told me the shell is very soft and the crabs are from the deep waters of Japan. That time, I learned further that not all seafoods sold in that market are from Taiwan itself but most are imported from Japan.






After seeing most of the place and ending in that humongous crab stall for several minutes, we bought the bunch of shrimps from the ladyowner - it costs 380NTD - we shared it with our other friend. We decided it's time to do the "fishing" but before that, Ate asked me to call our friend Juvel to check what she wanted us to buy for her then off we went to get our shares. We bought squid, crab legs (I prefer the legs because it's meaty compared to the crab body), shrimps, fresh dilis, clams and sashimi. We couldn't find a desirable salmon meat and we didn't want the head part this time so we took it out from our list. I wanted to buy even more but thinking of how small our storage bin is stopped me from getting more than planned. There'll be another chance anyway.




Outside the market building, cooked and ready to eat varieties were also sold. At the entrance/exit door, they were selling cooked small crabs at a price of 100NTD for three pieces. Other than that, the rest includes fried varieties and the popular spiced seashells (bisukol). I asked Ate if she tried that and she said yes and it tasted good. I wondered how they suck the meat out without cracking/biting the tip - the procedure I knew since childhood. They kept asking me what I liked them to buy among the cooked ones but I told them seeing the variety of seafoods inside the market was enough for me. We just went to the store to get hot coffee which we finished outside the store while Jade run around the place.








We strolled further along the shore and I saw that there are other stalls there as well but more of the real wet ones where the fishes are scattered on the floor. I guess it's cheaper there. We didn't stay long because it was too windy. Again, there'll be another chance anyway. We decided to head back home and on our way, Kuya bought us hot sugarcane juice which he said is good for our coughs. We also dropped by a store in Bali to buy salted eggs. We arrived home just before dinner giving me time to cook the first dish out from our "fishing".


I have the complete set of pictures taken inside the market in an album HERE.



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Sunday, October 28, 2007

When a dog gets treated like a human...

...grief prevails over all other emotions when its time on earth has come to an end.

Ate Rosie, our friend who takes care of our daughter, called me this morning minutes before we were about to leave the house and bring Jade to her place. She was sobbing and I knew right away that something is wrong. Miki has been sick for several days now and he has been constantly vomiting and running out breath lately. She asked if I can take a leave of absence from work and she'll just call me back when she gets sober. I didn't have to ask why, I told her it's fine for me and I understand her position. I dressed back to then also thinking what a TGIF it is spent with Jade. At the back of my mind, I was also thankful she called giving me a valid reason not to report to work as I dreaded another day without anything to do but pretending to be busy in my work table.

After an hour, she called back, this time calm and able to tell me clearly what happened. She and her husband, Kuya Jack, were awake almost the whole night tending to Miki as he gasped for breath and could barely stand up from his bed wetting himself with his own urine. Ate had to stay in their living room where his bed was located. She had to call back Kuya, who already reached his workplace an hour drive away from our place, so they could bring Miki to a better hospital in Taipei City.

Miki came to the couple's life 5 years ago in time for them to get over the lose of their son Daniel. They found him along the way and brought him to the vet to report for being lost and found, and at the same time to check if the owner has already made an action to search for him. They found a badge around his neck but the vet advised them not to call instead wait for several days. Number of days passed but nobody seemed to look for him. This then was the signal for the couple to bring him home and call him their own.

Without a child in the family, all their love were poured over Miki. They bought him his own beddings, clothes, bathing stuffs and food. During his younger years, he would even sleep on their bed and like a real baby, he would do gestures to catch their attention or even display actions of jealousy during the couple's sweet moments in the living room. Anybody who says anything against him becomes the enemy. Ate had been into several verbal fights with some of the ill-mannered people in the neighborhood all because of her love over Miki. She really stood by his side all the way.

At the time he was found, the vet estimated him to be 7 years old. That being said, he should be 12 years old now. He had been brought to the hospital last year for getting into a serious medical condition where his life was almost gauged not to reach another year. This really hurt the couple. Miki had ailment in the liver and in his stomach walls. He had to be given a number of medications and vitamins. As he aged, he settled into his own place in the living room as he was no longer able to jump out of the bed to pee. His breath started to give out a foul smell because he regularly salivates. This didn't stop the couple from kissing and hugging him. Few months ago, they brought her to the vet for his regular check-up and to get the vet see his teeth because one of them got simply uprooted by itself. The vet cleaned his set of teeth removing all the tartars that contributed to the foul smell and magically, the unwanted odor was out.

Ate Rosie watching - making sure that Jade's not going to hurt Miki

I am not a pet lover but I tried to understand and accept the treatment they give to him. Ate would even refer to Miki as Jade's kuya (elder brother). My daughter, seeing how she treats him, also started to love him. She would hug or pat him. At first, she would even ride on his back thinking maybe that he is a toy. But through the months of being together in one place, she learned to befriend him. One thing that really surprised me was when she kissed Miki right on his mouth. She accidentally hit him on her way to the bedroom and he stumbled. Ate asked her to say sorry and in response, she hugged Miki and a kiss followed. A gesture I taught her in lieu of verbally apologizing.


Miki and Jade on one hot summer day - oh, is she pulling his left ear?

This week, they were both sick, Jade with a cough and Miki with several complications. Jade vomits because of the phlegm while he vomits because of his stomach ailment. Seeing him vomit would also make her nauseated. At one time, they even took turns in spitting out making Ate map the floor one after the other. Seeing him getting weaker as the days passed by, Ate prayed hard for a longer life for Miki. Some of her elderly friends in the neighborhood started to tease her saying he would pass away soon – she fought back. Noticing Miki's health diminishing, Dennis suggested that they get a new one to give life to Miki but Ate said she didn't like as she still hopes for Miki to stay longer and that she's not ready for a new one yet.


Thursday, a day before he left, Ate, being the mother, felt something different's going to happen. He wouldn't eat anything, not even his favorite cookie or chicken meal, even his medications. He threw up most of the time. They brought her to the nearby vet but of no use. That prompted them to bring him to a better vet hospital in Taipei so he could get injected with an IV to help him restore his health. Ate was crying all the way to the hospital talking to Miki to hang on.

Reaching the hospital, the vet attended to him right away. He was given an IV and was suggested to be brought to the incubator to calm him. He was by the way having a high fever that time. The vet placed him in a bed for a while so the vet could tend to his other patients but after few minutes, he started to gasp. The vet immediately transferred him to one area where he was given some resuscitating aids. Given all the attention, he still was not able to survive his plight. The couple weeped so much that even the vet and other pet owners around were moved. This is their second loss.

They left him in the hospital and asked the vet to have him incinerated and have his ashes be thrown in the sea. They headed home mourning. They weeped even more when they opened their home and saw no one waiting for them on the door. She called me after hours of getting herself to accept the reality that Miki, their pet dog, the one they considered their child has already left them. I really never mourned over the loss of pets but I did at this time. It dawned to me how Ate and Kuya really loved him so much that they really treated him as their own child – not just a pet but as a human. I shared with their grief, so did our other friends.

This is avgrief over a beloved pet like Miki – what more if he's beyond a dog?

To Ate Rosie and Kuya Jack, kudos to you for all the love and care you have showered to your Miki, your child. May you eventually get over his passing. In time, you'll find comfort knowing he has gone to rest and end his battle against life. His spirit is always with you.

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Thursday, October 25, 2007

Crayfish

Contemplating over the non-approval of my blog in the marketplace after two weeks of being in queue, I decided to retract my application in PPP and in the other two blog paying sites I signed up at. I felt sad that I did this after all the excitement I even shared here but I think it's not the right time for me to get into this kind of thing. Two of the sites I signed up are very particular with the blog's stat to which I really don't have a good one yet. Guess, I have to earn more traffic first then renew my applications on these post paying sites. I should have thought about this in the first place - but didn't I? I did? Yes, I did! Anyway, these sites won't go away. Need to work more on the stats, huh!



Lesson learned - don't just plunge in into something not really thought about. But hey, I knew this even before. Ah, the silly me's here again.

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Addicted to blogging

One of my friends way back highschool, Hannah, worked around this CMA logo for our group Joseans_92 and eventually, it has been grabbed by the group members and has been posted in their own blogs attesting their "addiction" to blogging in multiply. It has been for several months now but I never really thought of grabbing it for myself as I thought I'm not a blog addict, just a blog regular.

Today, I came across a blog that posted a means of measuring how addicted one is on blogging. Finding it interesting and knowing that I have blogged most of the time recently drove me to check my level of blog addiction and to my surprise, I am just 67% addicted. I expected to get higher rating but then if I get that, it would mean that I am not really doing anything at work anymore except to blog meaning - posting in my site, visiting the links in my blogroll, leaving comments here and there and hopping from one blog to the other. And yes, I really do that.

I think getting 67% and putting the CMA logo in my blog do not call for rehab yet so I can still go on with my regular blogging activities. On second thought, I wonder what the rehab activities will be if I hit 100% blog addiction. Nah, rehab for me simply means locking myself out from the internet and spending all my time with my daughter.

Now, how about you check your own level of blog addiction and see if your rating is really matches your blogging activities? I found this fun so I thought of passing it on from here.

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Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Office rant 3...

My colleague (let’s call her MC) and I (JM) were preparing our chopsticks for lunch today when…

Girl 1: Hey, MC, aren’t you going to the eng’g lab for lunch?

MC: Why? No, we’re going to the cafeteria.

Girl 1: Wait, girl 2 sent an email to everyone saying we all go together to the lab because packed lunched from outside will be served to the group.

MC: Huh! Really? What’s the occasion?

Girl 1: Wait, wait, wait …

(girl 1 looks at her email)

Girl 1: Sorry, sorry, I realized you’re not in the email chain

PS: Above conversation was in Chinese

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On our way to the wash area:

MC: Girl 1 said … (related the above conversation to me)

JM: They always do that to us, that girl 2… she always leave us out of the list

MC: But why? She can do a mistake once, twice or thrice but not more than three times

JM: Maybe she intentionally does that – get rid of us

MC: But I still can’t understand

JM: You know, everytime I asked hubby why we’re not included, he tells me it’s time for us to move to that place so girl 2 will feel our presence…

- but then, I think, it won’t make a difference

- You know what, somebody from the group should somehow be curious why we’re not around, don’t you think?

MC: Yes, somebody should fight for us… pauses

JM and MC: But nobody seems to look for us…

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We headed down to the cafeteria and while queueing…

MC: I don’t feel bad because we don’t have the lunch box but I feel bad being not included in the chain. You see, they even included girl 1 (not a part of the group anymore) and the other lady whom we don’t even know

JM: Girl 2 also invited one of the girls downstairs before

MC turns back to our two other lunch buddies and told them what we were ranting about. Feeling for us, the other girl said we’d order our own drinks then. And MC blurted out “Yes, I’ll order drinks for everyone except her.”

MC: But that will be too obvious already

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While we were eating our meals, we talked further:

JM: Who’s birthday is it today?

MC: I don’t know – I’m not sure – it could be the same guy who bought the 85degC drinks yesterday

JM: You mean the new guy

MC: No, should be from the other group

JM: Ah ok.

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We finished our meal and as a final comment to our sentiments over not being invited to our group’s lunch-together, I looked at my platter and uttered – we got better meal than what they have in their lunchboxes!

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THE END

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Somebody needs to win a free domain - PLEASE BE OF HELP

Lovelyn of "A Raconteur's Attempt" is staging some form of web campaign to help Bill of "From the Boondocks" win a free domain contest run by Tina of "mygoodfinds.org". As Bill is a "kailyan" from the Cordilleras, I asked Lovelyn if I can copy her idea and campaign for Bill in my blog and she willingly said yes. Bill desperately needs a domain of his own so he could compile all his articles in a website he can really call his own and will soon have his site's URL "http://igorotblogger.com/. Sounds nice, right? Please help us by visiting his quest HERE and another attempt HERE. It's as easy as getting into his site and clicking all the links he placed for the votes to be counted in. This is not a political thing, promise! If Bill will win, he's in the second spot right now, we'd all have a cup of native coffee pouring from somebody else's "takore". Let's make this real.

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Tuesday, October 23, 2007

TEA on my phone






"IT IS better to be deprived of food for three days, than tea for one," so goes a popular Chinese saying. Line from "The wonders of tea" article of Sunstar Davao.

We all know how tea or cha/tsa/tsa-a/it-cha became a regular part of most people's daily meals. This is especially true here in Taiwan. Tea comes in different varieties and costs. It surprised us a lot to see a bag of tea (around 500grams) worth 10,000NTD and we're even told that there's more to that - a bag tea that can cost as much as 100,000NTD. Definitely, I won't buy either. Those amounts are really very very expensive I'd rather buy an electronic stuff that can't be dispensed that fast. But for sure, tea lovers won't mind that cost, don't you think?

The history of the origin of tea comes a long way back and I just learned today that there's still a debate about it's country of origin - China or India.

In our office, I see how people love tea and I see how our officemates brew their teas at any time of the day. Most of them prefer the loose tea (no bags) and they'd have the common glass container with a filter on top where the tea leaves are placed and soaked in the water. For others, they mix it in the water and let the leaves settle at the bottom. Some prefer it served hot while others do like them cold.

It also comes great with milk - it's called nay-cha ("nay" or "nai" means milk). This is a very popular drink here in Taiwan at any time of the year as they come hot or cold. They'd also use the tea to boil the eggs that makes the egg-white turn into brown. They're commonly sold in the stores - some with pungent smells ( but don't know where the smell comes from) and they're also served in our cafeteria during lunch or dinner.

Teabags are also used in spas where they are placed on the eyes for the sake of relaxation.

But here in Taiwan, one of the many other uses uses of tea (in a teabag, not the loose ones) that I learned is it's application as telephone "deodorant" if I may call it that way. Yes, it works pretty well. You see, they don't have rubbing alcohols here ( we only get them from the Pinoy stores) and they don't clean their handsets but you'd see a bag of tea in the area where the phone's mouthpiece is placed. I don't know if other nationalities do these but this really amazed me. If you'd ask if I have a teabag in my phone set, my answer is "YES, I do", not only in my office phone but also at home. I love the smell of tea each time I pick up the phone to answer a call or to ring somebody. Who would have thought of that? Now, if you want to try it, please note that it won't work to old modelled home phones like this. You may ask why and I'll tell you "isn't it obvious?"








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Parenting job anyone?

I've been thinking of looking for a new job opportunity lately as my "self-declared deadline" is fast approaching. The decision is still open as to whether or not I will pursue my plan of quitting even if I don't find a new job. Somehow, one of my wishes is to try being a "stay at home mother/wife" even for some time only. I have already uploaded my CV in a data bank and had it sent out to a friend too.

Then, I received a "job advertisement" from a friend and reading it made me think "is this really how parenting is described if it were put in the ads?". If so, do you wanna apply?

Job Description: PARENT

POSITION: Mom, Mommy, Mama, Ma, Dad, Daddy, Dada, Pa, Pop

JOB DESCRIPTION:

  • Long term, team players needed, for challenging permanent work in an, often chaotic environment.

  • Candidates must possess excellent communication and organizational skills and be willing to work variable hours, which will include evenings and weekends and frequent 24 hour shifts on call.
  • Some overnight travel required, including trips to primitive camping sites on rainy weekends and endless sports tournaments in far away cities! Travel expenses not reimbursed.
  • Extensive courier duties also required.

RESPONSIBILITIES :

  • The rest of your life.
  • Must be willing to be hated, at least temporarily, until someone needs $5.
  • Must be willing to bite tongue repeatedly.
  • Also, must possess the physical stamina of a pack mule and be able to go from zero to 60 mph in three seconds flat in case, this time, the screams from the backyard are not someone just crying wolf.
  • Must be willing to face stimulating technical challenges, such as small gadget repair, mysteriously sluggish toilets and stuck zippers.
  • Must screen phone calls, maintain calendars and coordinate production of multiple homework projects. Must have ability to plan and organize social gatherings for clients of all ages and mental outlooks.

  • Must be willing to be indispensable one minute, an embarrassment the next.
  • Must handle assembly and product safety testing of a half million cheap, plastic toys, and battery operated devices.
  • Must always hope for the best but be prepared for the worst.

  • Must assume final, complete accountability for the quality of the end product.
  • Responsibilities also include floor maintenance and janitorial work throughout the facility.

POSSIBILITY FOR ADVANCEMENT & PROMOTION:

None. Your job is to remain in the same position for years, without complaining, constantly retraining and updating your skills, so that those in your charge can ultimately surpass you

PREVIOUS EXPERIENCE:

None required unfortunately. On-the-job training offered on a continually exhausting basis.

WAGES AND COMPENSATION:

Get this! You pay them! Offering frequent raises and bonuses. A balloon payment is due when they turn 18 because of the assumption that college will help them become financially independent. When you die, you give them whatever is left. The oddest thing about this reverse-salary scheme is that you actually enjoy it and wish you could only do more.

BENEFITS : While no health or dental insurance, no pension, no tuition reimbursement, no paid holidays and no stock options are offered; this job supplies limitless opportunities for personal growth, unconditional love, and free hugs and kisses for life, if you play your cards right.

FOOTNOTE "THERE IS NO RETIREMENT -- EVER!!!

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Sunday, October 21, 2007

Earning online starts from here

My first application to a site that pays posts seems not be approved or it maybe taking the site owners quite some time to look well into my blog and to decide whether or not to get me in their group. It has been more than a week now so I almost thought of withdrawing that application. Then the friend who attested her membership to that site recommended me to join another blog paying site, the Bloggerwave . At first, I had some hesitations but then, the drive of getting paid for what I write somehow encouraged me to just give it a try. So I did explore that site and eventually signed up.

My friend's application was accepted within 24 hours but mine being not much of a traffic generator was approved within 3 days. Not to bad, at least Bloggerwave gave me my first opportunity to finally earn online while I continue with my regular blogging routine. Now this should be the kick-off of it all.

To all other friends who have the interest in earning online, why not explore the site and sign up so you could start earn your own bucks as well? Christmas is not that far from now, we could buy gifts out of what we could earn. Plunge in!

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Friday, October 19, 2007

Greens are out for now

It has been two weeks after the last typhoon hit Taiwan but we could still feel its impact until now. In the canteen, we noticed that most of the vegetable dishes are cooked out from root crops, bamboo shoots or bean/pea sprouts. Greens are just too expensive these days. I dropped by the grocery two days ago and to my surprise, green beans which usually cost 39NTD is now worth 99NTD, a bag of "pechay" costs 59NTD (from 20+NTD), half slice of small cabbage is 45NTD, a bag of onion leeks costs 79NTD, one piece of large bitter gourd costs 149NTD, and so on...


Whew, seeing all these incredible prices, I picked one half slice of cabbage and headed to the counter. I don't know when the prices will normalize but for sure, we may have to go for potatoes and carrots this weekend.

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Thursday, October 18, 2007

People management at a time when crisis strikes


The picture says it all...bow!


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The conscience-smitten mom and the joy that results from conciliation treat

Guilt over scolding Jade to sleep the other night hit me as I saw her cuddle to her dad in an attempt to get the right position to sleep. At that time, I ran out of patient because after more than an hour of trying to put her to sleep, all she did was toss and turn and either scratch the back of my arms so lightly that it tickles or kick my tummy and legs with all her might. I started to tuck her to bed at 9:30pm after the usual evening games but she just couldn’t keep still. She would pull me up so I’d carry and swing her then she’d point at the bed as her way of telling she wants to lay down. Then she would pull me up again and point back to bed. She has been doing that for sometime now but that night was different. We actually allot one hour till she gets to doze off as we know that much as her eyes are already drooping, she wouldn’t really get into wonderland yet. But then an hour passed and she was still turning, hitting me here and there. Her dad arrived and offered to put her to sleep but I hesitated knowing that she would be crying instead and will make her awake even more. 11pm ticked and I decided to just get her up to play such that she’ll eventually get exhausted and sleep. I tickled her and made her laugh then I brought her out to the living room to play her toys and I even gave her a cookie to munch. I didn’t check the time anymore but when I noticed that her eyes were already turning red and she kept on yawning and started scratching the eyes, we put her back to the bedroom but no, she didn’t sleep right away. I think it was already past 12MN when she finally went to wonderland.

I felt slight aches from her powerful kicks but when I embraced her, I shed tears resulting from the guilt feeling of the scoldings in between the attempt of putting her into sleep. With that in mind until yesterday afternoon, I decided to bring her out to make up for the night before. Hubby’s working overtime again so date was only for me and Jade. I fetched her up and with her porridge ready, we went to the apartment to pick up the backpack with the entire toddler’s stuff and off we headed to the bus stop.

Jade may not really know and understand that I’m bringing her out to “pay” for mom’s misbehavior the other night but I didn’t really care. The treat was part of the mother-daughter bonding anyway. I brought her to KFC – with her porridge, we dined and shared the set of meal I ordered then I brought her up to the kid’s playpen and allowed her to enjoy. She was really very happy to be there and it was the first time that she slid down the slides in a correct way, and to her delight, she did it several times happy to know that she got it right this time. She also got the chance to play with another toddler whose mother was trying to converse with me but in the language that I still don’t understand. She wanted to play more but it was time to get back home. Good thing she was satisfied that she didn’t resist when I placed back her shoes signalling her it’s time to leave. Last night, she still did the toss and turns but mommy had the patient afterall.

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Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Alphabet tag

I got tagged by a newly added blog friend named Mari from life starts together.

Instructions: Each player starts with 7 random habits/facts about themselves. People who are tagged need to write on their own blog about their seven things, as well as these rules. At the end of your blog, you need to choose 7 people to get tagged and list their names. Don’t forget to leave them a comment telling them that they have been tagged and to read your blog!

7 facts about me

1. I’m a working mother wishing to be a SAHW/M even for several months only

2. I’ve been an OFW for more than 2 years now

3. A loyal friend, good listener and good advisor as well

4. Proud mother to one daughter

5. Loves window shopping, weekends outing, summer swimming

6. I haven’t watch a single movie in a moviehouse since I was pregnant (til now)

7. I’m a strong-willed woman

A - Age: 31 years, 3 months & 3 days old

B - Band Listening To Right Now: none really (the last band I listened to is Freestyle – got the CD at home)

C - Career: office woman

D - Drink or Smoke: occasionally

E - Easiest Friends To Talk To: Ella, Arlene, Claire, Nanet (I suddenly miss all of them)

G - Gummy Bears or Gummy Worms: Gummy Bears

H - Have a Boyfriend: had one before – now the hubby

I - In love: yes

J- Junk Food You Like: Doritos, cheese flavor, chippy, nagaraya bbq

K - Kids: one beautiful daughter (just like mom J )

L - Longest Ride Ever: Cubao to Tabaco City (Bicol)

N - Names For Your Future Kids: baby boy – Joshua

O - One Wish You Have Now: be a SAHW/M

P - Phobias: earthquakes

Q - Favorite Quote: Aim high and hit the mark…

R - Reasons To Smile: a good night sleep, time to go home and be with Jade

S - Sleeping Hours: 6-8 hours

T - Time You Woke Up: 7:40am – it’s so cold and it’s so hard to wake up to catch the service bus

U - Unknown Fact About You: I had an ex-bf, lol

V - Vegetable You Hate: I don’t remember any

W - Worst Habit: nagging

X - X-rays You’ve Had: chest x-ray (annual medical checkup at work), urinary tract x-ray

Y - Yummy Foods: various

Z - Zodiac Sign: Cancer

Now, that gives tidbits about me. I am tagging Jolana, Elanie, Lovelyn, Hannah, Noeds, Sharon and Ruel. Keep the ball rolling guys.

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Shoes, shoes and shoes... treading with sneakers is still one of the best

I have several collections of shoes - most are from selective yet necessary buying, while some are results of impulse buying. There's this pair I used only once - on the wedding of our friends here. There are these two pairs I used when I was pregnant but didn't feel like using them again after I gave birth. I have this pair of cheap orange sandals I used last summer but it didn’t last that long because one side of one shoe started to tear off and I was not able to find time to fix it. While there's this pair of slip-in shoes I bought also during the time of my pregnancy that I use until now. It's a regular wear for all seasons as I can wear it with short stockings on summer and with socks on winter. I liked it so much that even if the color starts to fade, they're still regularly intact in my feet. There's this slip-in high heeled favorite pair of mine that's now in storage because I can already feel the water getting in on my way to office during the rainy days.

Wanting to change image, my sister urged me to buy a formal office shoes back home but it turned out to be of one usage only because it hurt my feet a lot and I didn't want to use it anymore. (I am planning to sell it at a discounted to some friend's friend.) Forget about changing the looks, I'd rather enjoy the comfort of moving around. Got also this pair of authentic Macanna striped multicolored shoes I haven't worn for few months now. It's time to bring out of from the box now that it's cold. It'll keep the feet warm. There's also this pair of branded rubber shoes bought together with hubby's now almost worn-out shoes.' haven't used it for more than a year now so I might as well sell it out. Hey, I also have this trendy shoes I brought from SM Baguio - twas used less than ten times.Another one I almost forgot on the list is the pair of boots I bought from a friend selling goods from the Philippines. It's a rugged type shoes and I love to wear it with jeans. I couldn't simply pass these pairs to my sisters as I have the largest feet compared to all of them, including my mom. Definitely, I can't pass them to my only brother (err, I was able to pass him a pair of rubber shoes I brought in LK but I don't think the rubber shoes now will fit him).

It doesn't end there... On Saturday, my feet ached a lot after a long walk around the shopping areas of Taipei City I went to the department store and you guess it right, I bought a new pair of shoes... this time, it's a pair of sneakers - brand unknown, twas on sale (from 990NTD to 560NTD) - color is white with a touch of orange. I am wearing it right now and this is actually the reason that drove me to blog about me and my shoes. It feels so good moving around and nah, it brings out the youth in me, lol.

It may appear that I am a shoe collector but you won't say that if you see my younger sister's collection - she's imeldific...

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Tuesday, October 16, 2007

From 1st to 3rd

Prior to the declaration of Taipei 101 as the tallest building in Taiwan (and in the world), there exists a commercial building that soar high in the midst of Taipei city and located just infront of the TRA building and just a few steps from the Taipei Main MRT station. This is the Shin Kong Life Tower which I used to know only as the Shinkong Mitsukoshi Department Store that sells only branded products which are definitely expensive. We just go there for window shopping and dining in the basement food court.

From Wikipedia, the Shin Kong Life Tower was Taiwan's tallest building when it opened in December 1993. In 1997 the building was surpassed as Taiwan's tallest by the Tuntex 85 Sky Tower in the city of Kaohsiung. Both were surpassed in height by Taipei 101 in 2004.

We haven’t seen the Tuntex 85 building and I’m not even sure if we’ll get the chance to see it as it is located in the southern part of Taiwan and could be reached via plane (less than one hour), bus (4 to 6hours) or that fast speed train (~2hours). Since Taipei 101 is located in Taipei City, we have seen it several times already.

The building as seen from one of the nearby Taipei Main MRT station exits.

The building as seen from the grounds of CKS Memorial Hall.

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